不洁性爱让他“得”了病

不洁性爱让他“得”了病

 
 
 
 
 

不洁性爱让他“得”了病
http://www.sina.com.cn  2009年04月05日20:52  39健康网
  那天,我的高中校友田祥匆匆跨进我的诊室,神情紧张地说:“哥儿们,我真有点儿害怕!”我感觉很奇怪:“为啥?”他涨红了脸,环顾左右后神秘而惊慌地说:“你别笑话我,我去嫖过妓女,可能得性病了。”  

  我赶紧安慰他:“戴了避孕套应该没事的,但你以后千万不要再乱搞了!”他仍不放心:“可书上说,戴安全套也不保险呀!最近我总感觉身上有些不对劲,恐怕我真的得性病了!”

  我给他检查了一下,未发现性病的体征,劝他不要胡思乱想,可他还是不相信我。“我虽然不是性病专家,但是诊治性病的常识还是知道的!”我再三向他保证,他才将信将疑地走了。

  十多天后,田祥又来了,一进门就哭丧着脸说:“我完了,彻底完了,我得艾滋病了!”他紧张得连说话都走音变调了。我大吃一惊,忙问咋回事。

  “我发烧了,发烧好几天了,艾滋病的最早症状不就是发烧吗?”“简直胡扯蛋!发烧就是艾滋病吗?”我又好气又好笑。可他却坚信自己的判断:“我咳嗽、拉肚子、全身疼痛,这些不都是艾滋病的表现吗?这下我真的完了,我已几天睡不着了,一闭眼就做恶梦,满脑子都是艾滋病,我不能死,我不想死呀”说完便抱头大哭。

  我介绍他到市性病监测中心我的一个老同学那里,为他做了一次人类免疫缺陷病毒抗体检测,化验结果为阴性,可他并没有如释重负的样子,反而瞪着眼睛况:“会不会搞错了,没给他钱,会不会随便写个假报告来搪塞我?”气得我差点吐血:“你自己去找人看吧!”

  于是田祥跑遍本市几家能检测艾滋病病毒的大医院,结果都说没得艾滋病,可他还是不放心,吃不下饭,睡不着觉,人瘦了十多公斤。后来他又跑去书店,看到有关性病的书就买,他不相信我,也不相信别的医生,他只相信自己,自己研究性病去了。

  有半个多月时间,田祥没有烦我,然而就在我暗自庆幸摆脱了他的纠缠的时候,他又找上门来:“不得了,老夏,我身上有梅毒了,这次可千真万确的!看在同学一场的情分上,赶紧救救我!”田祥边说边捋起衣服说:“我的后背、腿上、手臂上冒出了不少红疙瘩,奇痒难忍,这不正是梅毒的表现吗?”

  “你身上那么一片又红又痒的点点,根本就不是梅毒的表现,可能是被蚊虫叮咬所致,你真是草木皆兵。”我在仔细检查后对他说。“老同学,你不要安慰我,书上说梅毒就是这样的,而且要早治疗,发展到晚期,就会烂掉眼睛、鼻子!”他仍然像以前那般固执。

  田祥真是越来越难缠了,本不想再理他,可看到他已被“性病”折磨得只剩下一把骨头,又不忍心丢下他不管,只好又托朋友帮忙为他检查,检验结果证实仍是虚惊一场。

  可是他并未因此而改变,在稍稍平静了几天之后,田祥“旧病”又复发。觉得小便不好了,便以为病菌蛀坏了尿道;后来又说病菌已扩散到血管里,蔓延全身了,所以身上每个部位都感觉疼痛。由于精神过于紧张导致植物神经功能失调,拉肚子,身上经常出汗,掉了些头发,他便断言艾滋病发作了。

  我建议他看心理门诊,可他信是性病所致,一次次辗转于各大医院检查,将几年打工的积蓄花得一干二净。尽管结果表明他什么病也没有,可他认定一个歪理:所有的医生对他都不负责任!

  此后的日子里,田祥一直生活在自我折磨苦海里,朝气全无,人渐憔悴了,转眼三十出头,可他连对象也不敢谈,谈对象就得结婚性交,性交就有可能传染性病,他认为这年头没有女人是可靠的。他的病越来越重了!

  医生点评:

  毋庸置疑,田祥是得了“性病恐惧症”。性病恐惧是恐怖症的特殊类型,表现为对性病症状和性病引起的后果的焦虑和恐惧,坚信自己已染病。虽经医学检查得出否性的结论,但患者仍无法消除恐惧和焦虑。

  心理学认为,恐惧、焦虑、疑病的本质是内心不安全感的表现,这种不安全感源于幼年期与母亲的分离性焦虑,长大以后内心深处的恐惧和不安全感仍滞留于潜意识中,虽然自己不能感知,但这种感觉仍在不时地影响一个人的心理和行为。成年以后是否表现出症状,与潜意识中储存的不良刺激的质与量有关。弗洛伊德认为,5岁以前所受不良刺激的质与量尤为重要,成年人的不良刺激可以是医生言语不慎、看医书断章取义以及他人和自我不良暗示等。不良刺激达到一定的阀限值时,就会导致心理障碍或心理疾病。本文中的祥的情况正是如此,在不断的自我暗示的作用下,掉进了性病恐惧的怪因而不能自拔。

  性病涉及生理、心理和伦问题,性病恐惧症并不少见,且表现形式也多种多样。有的已经痊愈仍不放心继续滥用药物,有的羞于求医暗自查书、对号入座,有的自我隔离、杜绝性生活。性病恐惧造成的后果远比性病本身严重得多(艾滋病除外)。对于这类患者,在治疗上除了正确宣传性病防治知识外,主要以心理治疗为主,必要时可配合使用抗焦虑、抗忧郁药物,以减轻患者的焦虑、紧张和忧郁情绪。心理治疗的目的是使患者认识和领悟到恐惧的实质,引导患者摒弃幼儿思考方式,用成人思维去认识、思考和解决问题。

Dirty sex let him "get" the disease
04 years http://www.sina.com.cn 2009 month 05 day 39 Health Net 20:52
On that day, my high school alumni TIAN Xiang rushed into my office, looked nervous and said: "buddies, I do a bit afraid!" I feel very strange: "Why?" He stood up, looking around after about a mysterious panic said: "Do not you laugh at me, I went to visit a prostitute prostitutes, venereal disease was a possible."

I hastened to console him: "wearing a condom should be fine, but you should never again after the乱搞!" Is still not assured him: "book can be said that the insurance you do not wear condoms! Recently who I feel something is wrong I am afraid that I have sexually transmitted diseases, the true! "

Give me a moment to check him and found no signs of sexually transmitted diseases, and advised him not to imagine things, but he still did not believe me. "Although I am not sexually transmitted diseases expert, but the diagnosis and treatment of sexually transmitted diseases, or common sense to know!" I wish to assure him that he was skeptical to go.

After more than 10 days, TIAN Xiang again, one door on the哭丧着脸said: "I finished, completely finished, I had AIDS!" He was not even nervous all speak the go tone sandhi. I was surprised by忙问咋回事.

"I had a fever, fever for several days, and AIDS is the earliest symptoms of fever吗?" "Simply nonsense eggs! Fever is AIDS?" I'm good and funny gas. He is convinced that their own judgments: "I cough, diarrhea, generalized pain, these are all manifestations of AIDS吗? It true that I finished, I have a few days sleep, nightmares on one with eyes closed, full brain is AIDS, I can not die, you my not want to die "he would cry抱头.

I introduce him to the city of my STD Surveillance Center, where an old classmate, in order to make him a human immunodeficiency virus antibody test, negative test results can be relieved that he did not like, but the status of staring eyes: "Will made a mistake, did not give him money, will not write a false report to prevaricate me? "so angry I almost hematemesis:" people look for yourself and see! "

TIAN Xiang then traveled all over the city to detect AIDS virus several large hospitals, the results that did not have AIDS, can he still do not trust, unable to eat any more rice, could not sleep, people lost more than ten kilograms. Later, he also ran the bookstore, see a book on sexually transmitted diseases buy, he did not believe me, do not trust other doctors, he can only trust themselves, their study of sexually transmitted diseases go.

Time there is more than half a month, TIAN Xiang did not bother me, but I am secretly glad that in his struggle from the time he come: "wonderful, old summer, my body has syphilis, and this may be true thousand there's ten thousand! look at a classmate on the mutual affection, hastened to help me! "TIAN Xiang said, stroking from the clothes, said:" My back, legs, arms out on a lot of red lumps, Ki severe itching, is it not a performance of syphilis吗? "

"Well, you found a little red and itchy, it is not the performance of syphilis, may have been caused by mosquito bites, you really草木皆兵." Double-check at me after he said. "Old classmates, not to comfort me you, that syphilis is a book like this, but also to early treatment, the development of late, it will rot away the eyes, nose!" He is still as stubborn as before.

TIAN Xiang is more and more difficult, and the rationale for him do not want to, we can see that he has been "sexually transmitted diseases," torture was only one bone, do not bear to leave him no matter, they also asked him to check for the Friends to help , of the test results are still to confirm a false alarm.

But he did not change, at a little calm after a few days, TIAN Xiang "old diseases" and relapse. Urine feel bad, they thought that a urinary tract infection bad borers; he said later on that the bacteria has spread to blood vessels, the spread of the whole body, so people are feeling the pain of each site. Cause too nervous because of the spirit of autonomic dysfunction, diarrhea, sweating often found, lost more hair, he asserted that the onset of AIDS.

I suggest he look mental patient, but he is believed to be caused by sexually transmitted diseases, the first time around in the major hospital for examination, the savings will be a few years spent working completely. The results show that even though there is no What's wrong with him, but he finds a sophistry: All the doctors are irresponsible for him!

After that day, TIAN Xiang has been living in self-torture Oliver, the dynamic not, people gradually fade, and the twinkling of an eye early thirty, but he dare not even talk the object, the object must talk of marriage to sexual intercourse, sexual intercourse is likely to spread sexually transmitted diseases, he did not think that the first woman to be reliable. His illness has been more and more weight!

Doctor Comments:

Needless to say, yes TIAN Xiang had "venereal disease phobia." Fear of sexually transmitted diseases are a special type of phobia, manifested as symptoms of sexually transmitted diseases and sexually transmitted diseases, the consequences of anxiety and fear, convinced that they are infected. Although the medical examination of whether the conclusions drawn, but patients still can not eliminate the fear and anxiety.

Psychology think, fear, anxiety and hypochondria are the essence of the performance of inner sense of insecurity, the insecurity stems from childhood and mother's separation anxiety, grow up deep inside the fear and insecurity remain Medium in the subconscious, even though they can not be perceived, but still this feeling from time to time to affect a person's psychological and behavior. Whether or not an adult show symptoms later and stored in the subconscious of bad quality and quantity of stimulus-related. Freud believed that before the age of 5 suffered adverse to stimulate the quality and quantity is particularly important, adults can be adverse to stimulate speech inadvertently Doctor, look out of context, as well as medical and self-others, such as adverse implied. Adverse stimulation of the valve reaches a certain threshold, it will cause psychological disorder or mental illness. Of this article is the case of Andrew, in the constant implied by the role of self, the fear of sexually transmitted diseases into the strange and thus unable to extricate themselves.

Sexually transmitted diseases related to physical, mental and problem-lun, sexually transmitted diseases are not uncommon phobia, and also a variety of forms. Some of them have still not at ease to continue to recover from drug abuse, some ashamed to seek treatment secretly search book, sit in the right seats, and some self-segregation, put an end to sex life. Fear of the consequences of sexually transmitted diseases caused by sexually transmitted diseases than their much more serious (except AIDS). For such patients, on the treatment of sexually transmitted diseases apart from publicity right knowledge, based mainly on psychological treatment, if necessary, with the use of anti-anxiety, antidepressant drugs, in order to reduce patient anxiety, tension and depression. The purpose of psychotherapy is to enable patients to recognize and comprehend the essence of fear, and guide children to abandon their way of thinking in patients with adult way of thinking to understand, consider and solve the problem.

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