争议:性伴侣到底几个最合理

争议:性伴侣到底几个最合理

 
 
 
 
 

争议:性伴侣到底几个最合理
http://www.sina.com.cn  2009年05月04日22:26  金羊网
  重庆市针对社会青年的性行为调查结果显示,每人性伴侣平均为5个,最少的3人,最多的9人;他们中,八成人是从黄色录像上获取性知识。该调查对象是300名毕业于普通高中、职业高中,未经过高等教育的社会青年。而在“杜蕾斯全球性调查报告”称,在全世界,中国人的平均性伴侣数最多,为19.3人,远远高于全球的平均数10.5人。两次调查的结果在国内都引起了轩然大波,对于重庆市的调查结果,深表忧虑者居多,而杜蕾斯的调查结果则备受质疑。不过,这些调查结果使得这样一个问题浮出水面:性伴,需要有几个?对此,专家们的意见分成了鲜明的两派。

  性伴一个就足够

  广州市计划生育科学技术研究所性康复科孙廷医师介绍,多个性伴侣会造成性疾病传播加快。譬如,艾滋病,每次接触的传播几率大概为1%,随着接触次数的增多,被传染的机会就越来越大。乌干达是实行一夫多妻的国家,一个男性的性伴侣平均超过10个,这个国家是目前艾滋病传播最广泛的国家。

  但目前有个短信息说“握着老婆的手,就像左手拉右手,一点感觉都没有”。长期对着一个性伴侣容易产生厌倦感是人之常情,但是,通过夫妻间的相互调节也可以获得美满的性生活。他认为,在目前状况下,只有一个性伴侣是最健康的做法。

  自然,双方只有一个,大家互相忠诚,都不到外面“搞搞震”,这样的婚姻生活自然够安全,但要说到多样和丰富就谈不上了。

  追求多性伴是人之本性

  广东省性学会一位不愿意透露姓名的专家则称,目前社会普遍认为“只有一个性伴才有益”,其实这是受到现实条件制约的一种认识。目前,绝大多数国家和地区的婚姻制度规定了一夫一妻制,这意味着只有一个性伴才是符合绝大多数人利益的。

  但是,一夫一妻的婚姻制度更多程度上是为了便于社会管理,让社会秩序简单明了,实际上并不符合人类贪求新鲜的本性,而且,现在有许多性传播疾病,甚至是无法治愈的疾病如艾滋病,发展多个性伴会对个人健康造成更多威胁,一些在“小姐”处寻求过性服务的男士常常容易将病惹回来,然后再传给家人。

  然而,将来总会有一天,科技能够发展到性生活不会传播疾病,也不会与怀孕产生必然联系,近亲繁殖等问题完全被避免,性生活仅仅变成了一种生活乐趣,在那种情况下,性伴自然是越多越好,婚姻就没有必要存在,更不会存在“性伴应该有几个”等类似的话题讨论了。

Controversy: a number of sexual partners the most reasonable in the end
http://www.sina.com.cn 2009 on 04 day 05 years 22:26金羊网
Chongqing community of young people having sex for the survey, the average sexual partners per person for five, at least 3 people, up to 9 people; of them, eight adult video from yellow to obtain knowledge. The survey was targeted at the 300 graduated from high school, vocational high schools, higher education has not been young. In the "Durex global sex survey," said that in the world, Chinese people's average number of sexual partners, 19.3, well above the global average of 10.5 people. The results of two surveys, both at home caused an uproar, for the findings of Chongqing, deep concern is that most of the Durex survey results are open to question. However, these findings make the question surfaced: sexual partners, need to have a few? In this regard, the views of experts was divided into two clear-cut.

Enough for a partner

Science and Technology, Guangzhou Institute of Family Planning Branch SUN Ting rehabilitation physicians, the result of multiple sexual partners will accelerate the spread of the disease. For example, AIDS, the spread of per-contact probability of about 1%, with the increase in the number of contacts, the chance of infection is increasing. Uganda is the practice of polygamy in the country, a male sexual partners on average more than 10, the country is currently the most widely spread of AIDS country.

However, there is a short message to say "holding his wife's hand, pulling his left hand as his right hand, that feeling did not." Long-term sexual partners into a tired easily lead to a sense of is human nature, but through the mutual adjustment between husband and wife could get a good sex life. In his view, in the current circumstances, there is only one sexual partner is the most health.

Naturally, the two sides is only one loyalty to each other, not to the outside "mess things up", so naturally enough the security of married life, but to the diverse and rich to say there would be no of.

Pursuit of multi-partner is human nature

Institute of Guangdong Province, one of the experts preferred to remain anonymous said, at present the community generally believes that "there is only one partner was useful," In fact, this is a realistic understanding of conditions. At present, the vast majority of countries and regions, the provisions of the monogamous marriage, which means that there is only one partner is in line with the interests of the overwhelming majority of people.

However, the degree of monogamy in marriage is more in order to facilitate the social management, so that social order is simple, in fact, not in the nature of fresh human lust, and now there are many sexually transmitted diseases, and even can not be cured diseases such as AIDS, the development of a number of sexual partners would lead to more personal health threat, some in the "Miss" in the search for men's sexual services are often easy to come back Jalan disease, and then to his family.

However, in the future there will always be one day, science and technology can not be developed to the sexual transmitted diseases, pregnancy will not have a positive connection, such as the issue of inbreeding was avoided, and sex life turned into a life of mere pleasure, in that circumstances, the partner is of course possible, the existence of marriage there is no need, nor will the existence of "a number of sexual partners should be" and other similar topics are discussed.

 

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